I have this urge of wanting to get married. I don't know why.... I don't think it has anything to do with biological clock... I still have couple of years... but I think it's because I've been roaming in NYC for 3 years.. it's lonely. And even when I used to live at home, it was lonely. I suppose the choice of getting married should not be a conclusion for loneliness, a person should be self sufficient. After all, what are friends for? But even still I can't bring myself to not want someone.

I got this from shinypink

愚笨的女人打擊男人；聰明的女人激勵男人。
　　
愚笨的女人盯著男人的缺點，老是生氣；聰明的女人欣賞男人的優點，很是開心。
　　
愚笨的女人不分場合與男人爭吵，弄得男人很沒面子；聰明的女人在外人面前給足男人面子，私下再對男人嚴加管教。
　　
愚笨的女人貶低男人 — 她忘了：貶低男人就是貶低自己；聰明的女人讚賞男人 — 她明白：讚賞男人才是炫耀自己。
　　
愚笨的女人不停地嘮叨那些陳年舊事；聰明的女人與男人一起憧憬美好未來。
　　
愚笨的女人抓住男人的過錯不放，以為自己看透了男人的本質；聰明的女人原諒男人，把男人比作永遠長不大的孩子。
　　
愚笨的女人會說 “你給我滾!”；聰明的女人會說“不許離開我!”
　　
愚笨的女人把男人當彈弓，拉得越緊，飛得越遠；聰明的女人把男人當風箏，悠然地牽著手中的線。
　　
愚笨的女人過於強調自我；聰明的女人善於寄託和依靠。
　　
愚笨的女人對男人寸步不離；聰明的女人和男人若即若離。
　　
愚笨的女人知道洗衣做飯，但不願再梳妝打扮；聰明的女人也知道洗衣做飯，但不忘扮靚自己。
　　
愚笨的女人帶給男人壓抑和壓力；聰明的女人帶給男人激情和動力。
　　
愚笨的女人使男人在她的淚水中失敗；聰明的女人使男人在她的笑容中成功。

I wish I could translate this.. I'm good at reading and understanding... not so much of translating or linguistic.

The whole thing is a comparison between how a "stupid woman" and a "smart woman" treats her man. I have to say, it's easy to read, easy to understand. But hard to truly understand it and put it in action. Even though I've read those verses before, I had to truly learn it the hard way. You see, I fell in love with my ex... and I was not smart about it. As sad as it is, in this age it's still an age where a woman has to learn how to "keep her man". Or else he'll run off with someone younger and hotter. Which is why I think it's a good idea to marry someone older. Because you'll always be his younger hot wife.... just saying.....


edit: I feel that I've been insensitive since same sex marriage has been in the news lately. Whatever written above can apply to same sex couples as well. So... whoever is in the "woman"'s position, it is applied to "her".  And also... we should pay less attention on same sex marriages, I don't know the population of gay people but I would say it's less than the people who are unemployed currently... let's talk about our economy and unemployment people.

Ally on Youtube will teach you how to wrap your skirt

Mine's a floral shirt from Lucky Brand. All this draping makes me feel so Rei Kawakubo! love it. When choosing the right men's shirt for skirt, I prefer longer and slimmer cut men's shirt. Shirts that are too short and too much in width can look like it's a drindle and widens the hip. I really like how long the shirt and goes over my knee and cascades down to the back. It gives me a nice "ladylike" feeling of the s/s 2012 season.

The neon yellow blazer is from Zara. I LOVE it. It screams LOOK AT ME like a child screaming for attention.